By Neelam Jain Last Updated:
Forget the kundlis and horoscopes; it's time to play your own matchmaker. You can well replace the need of the pundits by just knowing your commitment style and compatibility with your significant other.
All we want to say is that you can rely on your own judgement to know if he/she is well-suited to be your life partner. Just resort to these different couple traits to know if your sweetheart is a suitable match for you.
You give each other a second, third and a number of chances in love. You guys probably know that after all that verbal fights, hours of arguments and even calling it off, you will be back to each other with renewed emery and positive outlook. Most of the times, you are on your way to break up, but end up making up and finally reuniting, continuing to make your relationship better.
Forecast: You aren't as likely to break up and could be saying 'I do' very soon because it's said that the strong relationships are thick with arguments and are worth the fight.
Your mind is clouded with thoughts and concerns about your partner all the time. He/she not only makes you complete, but you both enjoy each other's space in every aspect; be it parties, movies, travelling or night outs. That you have common interests acts as a catalyst to improve your relationship's state of health.
Forecast: You share a strong bond and are less likely to depart. Your relationship scorecard is quite high on points and so are your chances of getting hitched. To sum it all, couples who play together, stay together!
You both have mastered the art of giving and taking space, probably from the past experiences and the mistakes. No doubt, you both are 'one', but are not joined at the hips. You enjoy each other's company like a normal couple, but you both know the importance of some 'me time' and being yourselves. Feeling imprisoned or glued to each other is the least that you can expect out of your relationship. You recognise the harm over-attachment does, hence you both allow each other room to grow individually within a partnership. Moreover, you respect each other's privacy and feelings.
Forecast: You both receive and give beautiful things like openness, enjoyment and dignity, which bind you together. Also, your thoughts and vision are similar, so you should plan to walk down the aisle.
If he/she is the person you have already convinced your parents for, more than half the work is done. You both will become 'two peas in a pod'. But, if there is a red signal from the family, you will drift apart because, for you, it is important to see that your family gets along with your partner. If they don’t approve of him/her, it doesn't make sense for you to be with your partner. You care about your family and would like the person in your life to be involved with them.
Forecast: You have already approached your parents for their 'Yes' so you are not torn between you partner and your family. No doubt, there is marriage on the cards for lovely couple.
There is no peace as you are dealing with temper tantrums, tears, emotional immaturity and the scenes created. You love each other but these are getting too tough to be handled. The childlike ways, the distaste at everything, yelling, crying and the mood swings are never ending. The emotional outbursts like 'You don't love me', 'How do I look', 'We don't look good together' are getting to your head.
Forecast: You have shared some intimate and special moments. But, the impulsive and destructive responses urge you to part ways on amicable terms. So, there are feeble chances of you both having a future together. You may get back together depending upon your compatibility.
If you both recognise the challenges your partner is facing at the workplace, celebrate one another’s victories and are all praises for each other; you can see yourself going forward. However, if you fail to balance your work and personal life, you just can't survive it. Here, it is all upto you to see whether it's only boss, colleagues and work-life with him/her or there is space left to devote time to each other. Have an opinion of your own.
Forecast: Chances are either zero or hundred percent guarantee in such cases. A career-oriented couple might understand each other completely or might drift apart with high frustration levels and unhappiness.
What we have mentioned above are identified with the trends in general and whether you are a similar or unlikely pair. There are hundreds of factors that play important roles in prospects of love and marriage. These are just the basic parameters to measure your compatibility and chances of marriage and not the answers to your marriage-related issues.
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