Being one of the most important days of your life, your wedding would surely get you excited as well as nervous. Like anyone else, even you would want everything to be just perfect on your wedding day. But, having a glitch-free wedding day, especially without any family dramas and last-minute blunders, is nothing less than a miracle. In fact, even you may knowingly or unknowingly do certain things that might add to those dramas.
Well, because of such panicky behaviour, you might even end up ruining your wedding day. So, if you want to ensure that you do nothing to spoil your wedding day, then here are a few things that you must avoid.
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Remember, that you alone cannot take care of every minute detail of your wedding. A notch here and a notch there might be different than you originally imagined. So, avoid becoming a ‘control freak’, and let others do their task the way they are doing. If you would keep on bickering every now and then, you might end up hurting the feelings of some of your loved ones.
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Your parents are the ones putting in every last penny of their savings as well as their emotions into your wedding. So, even if you think that you have planned everything quite perfectly, just do not ignore what they have to say. They hold major life experiences and are much wiser than you in many walks of life. So, let them be as much a part of your wedding planning as you are.
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You are not the only one who is getting married. Your partner and you are the two sides of the same coin entering into holy matrimony. Your marriage is as special for your partner as it is for you. So, never hurt your partner’s feelings just because you want your will to prevail in everything. Work as a team and take into consideration both of your views, opinions and ideas.
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Just because you do not like some particular relatives or are under some stress of your own, does not mean you will misbehave with any of your guests. After all, what is the point of inviting them if you cannot treat them nicely? So, be nice to them and do not forget to thank them for being a part of your special day.
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Wedding vendors, decorators, caterers, and planners put a lot of effort to make your big day the perfect one. And while doing so, some mistakes are bound to happen. But, it is not a great idea to be rude to them for every minute difference between what you expected and what you got. There is a solution to every problem, if sorted out in a cool and calm manner. If you embarrass or insult them, they might just walk out and leave you to do everything yourself. And, needless to mention, how difficult would it be to find a planner at the last moment!
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Your friends always stood by you through thick and thin. And, it is your responsibility to ensure that wedding planning stress and your personal problems do not come out on them in a wrong way. Instead of misbehaving with them for anything that goes wrong, discuss your problems with them to get a load off your chest. After all, what are friends for, right?
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Amidst the madness of all the wedding arrangements, you might lose track of the real reasons for happiness in your life. The wedding will last just for one day, but what will remain forever is your marriage, family and friends. Making silly mistakes and being selfish in your behaviour will do you no good and create consequences that you actually did not really intend to do. So, start your beautiful wedding journey on a sweet note with your loved ones rather than spoiling your relations with them.
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Even if things do not go according to your original plan, just don’t panic. Simply surround yourself with positive thoughts and people, and see how beautiful your wedding turns out to be!
