Who Is Akon's Wife? All About Tomeka Thiam, Filed For A Divorce Days Before Their 29th Anniversary

Tomeka Thiam, the wife of Senegalese-American singer, Akon, also for his song, Chammak Challo. They have been married for 28 years. However, the former has filed for divorce just days before what would have been their 29th wedding anniversary on September 15, 2025. According to the court documents, the business owner has cited irreconcilable differences as the reason behind their separation after almost three decades. The couple shares a 17-year-old daughter named Journey, for whom Tomeka is currently seeking joint legal custody and primary physical custody, with visitation rights for Akon.

The news quickly made headlines, leaving fans stunned and intrigued by the reason behind Tomeka and Akon's divorce after all these years. The separation marks a significant chapter of Akon and Tomeka Thiam's otherwise extremely private life. Over the years, she had maintained a relatively low profile despite being married to one of the most successful R&B singers. Tomeka had always been focused on her own career and family life, shaking off every rumour about her husband. However, the news of their divorce has reignited the speculations around the long-standing rumours about Akon's polygamous lifestyle and numerous relationships. 

Meet Akon's wife, Tomeka Thiam

As the couple's decades-long union comes to an end, interest in Tomeka's life, career, and individuality has peaked, so let us introduce you to the masterful business owner and mother. Tomeka Thiam was born in 1975 in the United States. While she had managed to keep most of her life out of the spotlight, little is known about her family, education, or upbringing.

However, reports have suggested that Tomeka is of African American descent and identifies as Christian. Tomeka's quiet background stands in stark contrast to her high-profile marriage to the globally recognised musician Akon, and while she may not be headlining the news every other day, she has built a well-recognised brand for herself. 

Akon and Tomeka Thiam's first meeting

Tomeka Thiam first met Akon when she was just a teenager, and the Smack That singer was 20 years old. The 18-year-old Tomeka was introduced to the singer by her brother at a friend's apartment in Georgia. It was during an Instagram Q&A session that Tomeka first revealed that it was Akon who couldn't take his eyes off her. While she was initially confused as to why he would be paying so much attention to her, she soon felt a spark when their eyes met, and the rest was a blissful history.

Tomeka Thiam and Akon's marital life

Tomeka Thiam and Akon got married in 1996. The couple ensured that their wedding and marital life remained private. Tomeka would occasionally speak about their relationship, often with humour and honesty. However, while she faced several rumours during the course of their relationship, she only spoke up about Akon's polygamous beliefs. Tomeka stood firm in her sense of independence, stating, "He knows his way home." Nonetheless, now that they are divorced, fans are speculating whether these rumours could have played a role in Tomeka calling it quits days before their 29th wedding anniversary.

Tomeka Thiam and Akon welcomed a sweet angel, a daughter named Journey, who was born in 2007. According to reports, as of 2025, Journey is 17 years old. In the divorce filing, while Tomeka has requested joint legal custody of their daughter, Journey, she has also sought primary physical custody. The business owner remains committed to maintaining a stable and nurturing environment for their daughter, ensuring that she gets the love and attention of both her parents amid the family transition.

Tomeka Thiam's career and business ventures

Tomeka Thiam is a self-made businesswoman. Despite being the wife of one of the world's biggest musicians, she remained ambitious and built an individual identity for herself. She is the proud owner of Salon A LA Saison in Atlanta, Georgia. She started the salon in 2012, and with her determination and hard work, it has become one of the most well-respected salons in Atlanta. The business venture is known for its professionalism and quality service. Her entrepreneurial success has earned her financial independence and an estimated net worth of around USD 500,000. 

Tomeka Thiam and Akon's divorce and polygamy speculations

Tomeka Thiam filed for divorce from Akon in early September 2025, just days before their 29th anniversary. According to court documents, the date of separation is listed as 'TBD' and cites irreconcilable differences as the reason for their divorce. She is seeking spousal support and asking the court to deny any spousal support to Akon, whose net worth reportedly ranges between USD 60 million and USD 80 million.

While the reason for their separation has not been cited, speculations are that the rumours surrounding Akon's polygamous lifestyle might have something to do with it. While Akon had never officially confirmed how many wives he has, he had admitted that he practices polygamy and has fathered nine children. Tomeka has previously commented that she doesn't try to monitor his movements, maintaining a sense of detachment while focusing on her own life and responsibilities.

Despite being linked to the global star, Tomeka Thiam has consistently prioritised her privacy, grace and independence. Her recent legal move suggests that the business owner is now shifting her priorities to herself after nearly three decades in the spotlight. However, what the future holds for the couple is only time will tell.

What are your thoughts on Tomeka Thiam and Akon's relationship and upcoming divorce?

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